How To Know You Are The Side Chick


Do you feel there is something fishy about the guy you are dating? Are you getting that strange feeling that you are simply his side chick and you just keep brushing off that idea but just can’t get rid of it? Here are some red flags to keep an eye on and think about whether the guy really deserves your all…

DATES ARE AT SECRETIVE VENUES

One the biggest red alerts is when you guy dates you at really strange places. Places like a not-so-known restaurant and not a regular mall or more known and visited places. If he always has excuses for not going to more known locations, then the reason is that he just doesn’t want to be seen with you and you are simply the side chick.
HIS UNDERCOVER PHONE CALLS

If your guy ALWAYS takes his phone calls by leaving the room, then that’s not okay. We get private calls, but not always. If he has got a problem answering calls with you in front of him, then chances are he is talking to his wife or the real girl friend and sparing himself any trouble from you or her.

One more thing that serves as the red flag is when he is always busy and says he will call you back. Chances are he is at home with his wife and calls you only when it’s okay for him to.
NEVER TAKING YOU TO HIS HOUSE

No matter how messy the guy’s house is, if he is INTO you, he WILL take you to his house instead of always coming to yours. If he always makes excuses for taking you to his house, then you are probably his OTHER woman.

THE RELATIONSHIP STATUS ON FACEBOOK

This may sound a little silly. However, if he just keeps his twitter account secret or doesn’t even want you to be in his friend list, then there is surely a reason to suspect. If he says he doesn’t have either, that’s another big indicator. In case you are friends with him on Facebook, beware because many guys have more than one Facebook account to deal with their privacy issues.
HE DOESN’T LET YOU TAKE PICTURES TOGETHER
If your man is one of those who just won’t let you take pictures together EVER, then you should be on red alert. He is just scared of getting his pictures with you posted online and having any chances of it being seen by his real girlfriend or maybe a wife. He doesn’t have to have your picture as a screen saver, but there should be no issues of keeping or taking at least just one pic of you two together.
HE GETS UNEASY
Does your guy act weird when you ask to use his computer or borrow his phone? That’s a telling sign because if his slate is all clear, there is no need to be nervous when you ask for his phone or laptop.

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Hi, I'm Mongo Kear, a 25 year old woman from Liberia. I am the founder of "African girls killing I", I am also a natural hair blogger/vlogger.

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